Hot Girl Healing Kit Guide
BEGINNER RITUAL: Glow-Up Grounding
Time: 5-10 minutes
Best for: Post-social media scroll, comparison, low-energy mornings
1. Crystal Check-In 💎
Take your clear quartz crystal in hand. Close your eyes and place it over your heart or wherever you feel tension or heaviness.
Breathe in slowly. Let your breath soften you—melting away any self-doubt, shame, or judgment.
When you’re ready, say aloud:
“I am enough, exactly as I am.”
Feel the truth of it settle into your soul. This is your foundation. Before the glow-up, before the comeback—you’re already worthy.
2. Cleanse Your Aura 🔥
Light your Palo Santo and gently wave the smoke around your body, focusing on your chest, shoulders, and crown.
As the smoke swirls, visualize a soft golden light expanding from within you, getting brighter with every breath.
Let this be a release—of heartbreak, of expectations, of anything weighing you down.
Say to yourself:
“I release the old. I make space for the new.”
3. Hype Yourself 💌
Draw an affirmation card or scroll from your kit. Read it aloud.
Then, open your mini notebook and write:
The affirmation you pulled
One thing you genuinely admire or love about yourself today
Whether it’s your strength, your softness, or your resilience—name it.
This is how healing becomes power. This is your hot girl era.
INTERMEDIATE RITUAL: Realignment Ritual
Time: 20-25 minutes
Best for: Sunday resets, bad days, energy leaks
1. Energy Reset 🌬️
Place an incense stick into your quartz crystal holder and light it.
Watch the smoke rise and swirl as the scent begins to fill your space.
Let the aroma soften your nervous system—relaxing your shoulders, unclenching your jaw, and bringing you into the now.
This is your safe space. No pressure. Just presence.
2. Journaling Prompt 🖊️
Open your mini notebook to a fresh page and write the question:
“Where am I abandoning myself to fit in?”
Let your thoughts flow without judgment or filtering. Be honest. Be gentle.
This is a space for truth-telling—the kind that sets you free. Allow whatever needs to surface to come through, even if it's messy or raw.
3. Smoke Cleanse 🔥
Light your Palo Santo stick and gently wave the smoke around your body. Move slowly, sweeping from head to heart to feet.
As you cleanse, say with intention:
“I come back to me.”
Repeat it until you feel it. You are returning to your center, your power, your wholeness.
4. Visual Empowerment ✨
Hold your clear quartz crystal and sit quietly in meditation.
Visualize yourself glowing with golden, radiant light—healed, whole, and held.
Repeat the mantra aloud or in your mind:
“My healing is mine. My glow is real.”
Breathe it in. Let it settle into your bones.
This is the new you—clear, AND empowered.
ADVANCED RITUAL: Soft Girl Ceremony
Time: 40+ minutes
Best for: Healing shame, body image repair, self-forgiveness
1. Set the Space 🌬️ (5–10 minutes)
Begin by lighting your incense stick and Palo Santo, placing them in your quartz crystal holder. Let the smoke purify your energy and invite calm into your space.
Dim the lights, light a candle, and put on soothing music—something that feels gentle, cinematic, or soul-touching.
This is your sacred container to feel, release, and return to yourself.
2. Emotional Purge 🖤 (10–15 minutes)
Open your mini notebook and write the unfiltered, unpretty truth.
Don’t hold back. Write the things you’ve been avoiding, the wounds you haven’t voiced, the words that feel stuck in your chest.
Let the page hold it all. You’re not here to fix it—you’re here to feel it.
Cry if you need to. Sigh. Breathe. Let your body be part of the process.
3. Release & Rewrite 🔥 (5–10 minutes)
Once you've poured it all out, tear the page into pieces or burn it safely in a fireproof dish.
Watch it disappear—this is the moment of release.
Then, flip to a new page and write three new affirmations that speak to your strength, growth, and future.
Examples:
I am healing and that is enough.
I am learning to love the version of me I once abandoned.
I’m not starting over—I’m rising.
4. Crystal Bath or Facial Steam (Optional) 💎🛁 (10–15 minutes)
Set up a bath or facial steam and place your clear quartz crystal nearby.
As you soak or steam, visualize yourself shedding old energy and stepping into softness, power, and peace.
Let the warmth open your heart. Let the ritual remind you: you are not broken—you are blooming.
5. Seal the Healing 🧿 (2 minutes)
When you’re done, hold your evil eye keychain in your hand.
Close your eyes and say:
“I honor every version of me. I am healing and I am whole.”
Let this be the seal, the sacred bow on your transformation.
You’ve released, realigned, and reclaimed your energy.
The healing has already begun.